What should you do first when children are in conflict?

When children are in conflict, giving them a chance to resolve it themselves is a productive first step. This approach encourages children to develop important social skills, such as communication, negotiation, and conflict resolution. By allowing them to articulate their feelings and perspectives, children can learn to express themselves, understand others, and find solutions to their differences.

This process builds their confidence and helps foster independence, as they navigate the situation without immediate adult intervention. Furthermore, it can enhance their ability to manage similar situations in the future, reinforcing important life skills. Providing appropriate guidance while they work through the conflict can help them learn the importance of empathy and compromise, strengthening their relationships with peers.