What is the recommended way to handle a child's tantrum?

Staying calm and allowing the child to express their feelings is a recommended approach to handling tantrums because it creates a safe environment for the child to process their emotions. When a child is upset, their ability to think rationally is diminished, and they may not respond well to reprimands or yelling. By remaining calm, a caregiver can model emotional regulation and help the child learn to manage their feelings more effectively.

Allowing expression of feelings validates the child’s emotions, showing them that it’s okay to feel upset and that their feelings matter. This can be particularly important because it prevents further escalation of the tantrum and reassures the child that they are supported. As the child feels heard, they may be more likely to calm down and engage in problem-solving or discussing what is bothering them once they feel safe and secure in their environment.

This approach also encourages the development of emotional intelligence, teaching the child healthy ways to cope with frustration or disappointment in the future. When caregivers remain calm and understanding, it fosters trust and open communication, essential components for a positive caregiving relationship.